JuST mE ShAkirA

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!

2010-01-28T03:14:00.002+08:00

Kindly go to

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!

thank you so much.

hugs,

shakira

HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY? ( written by kids )

2010-01-10T04:23:00.001+08:00

HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY?

( written by kids )

"No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry. God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who you are stuck with." - - Kristen, age 10

WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED? "Twenty-three is the best age, because you know the person forever by then." - - Camille, age 10

HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED? "You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids." - - Derrick, age 8

WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON? "Both don't want any more kids." -- Lori, age 8

WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE? "Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough." - - Lynnette, age 8 (isn't she a treasure?)

WHEN IT IS OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE? "When they are rich." - - Pam, age 7

"The rules go like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry them and have kids with them. It's the right thing to do." - -Howard, age 8

IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?

"It's better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up after them." - - Anita, age 9

HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT IF PEOPLE DIDN'T GET MARRIED? "There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn't there?"--Kelvin, age 8

HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK? "Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a dump truck!" - - Name not readable.

Please go to YOU ARE NEVER ALONE

2010-01-04T03:01:00.004+08:00

PLEASE KINDLY GO TO

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!

I have started blogging there when this blog was locked but

Now that it is restored by Google, for which I am very grateful,

I would like to do all my future posts in the new blog.

FUNNY IS MY MIDDLE NAME

I really love JOKES.Hence I have started blogging on this topic
so that I can collect all my favourite jokes and
go there whenever I need to LAUGH.
LAUGHTER IS FREE HERE! LOL

So, see you there?

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!

FUNNY IS MY MIDDLE NAME

JUST WANNA WISH EVERYONE

2009-12-31T23:05:00.002+08:00

WISHING EVERYONE....

I wish for you to be...
Together with your beloved family
and cherished friends,

May you find the food better...
with someone special or family
to share them with!

May you count all your blessings!

May someone love you enough
to forgive your faults,
be blind to your blemishes,
and tell the world about your virtues.

May we live in a world at peace
and with the awareness
of God's love!

In every sunshine,sunset and rainbows,
every flower's unfolding petals,
every drop of rain,
every wonder of nature,
every one's laughter,
every baby's smile,
every lover's kiss,
every parent's love,
every activists' devotions,
every survivor's commitment,
and every wonderful,
astonishing,
miraculous beat of our HEART.

Happy New Year 2010!

May You Find Wisdom,
Peace,
Love,
and Joy This Year
with many, many more
years to come!
HUGS, WITH LOST OF LOVE,
SHAKIRA

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!

2009-12-30T12:58:00.001+08:00

Since December 18, BLOGGER has locked my blog and

TODAY, December 30,2009, my blog

has been RESTORED!

HOW AWESOME IS THAT!

I have decided to continue my future blogging

in YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!

www.justmeshakirack.blogspot.com

but this blog is open for all to read.

HAVE YOU A GREAT NEW YEAR!

hugs,

shakira

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Hi there,
My name is Shakira. My personal blog, www.justmeshakira.blogspot.com has been with me since 2006 . It was locked on December 19,20009 due to being detected as a spam blog. I really need help. Where do I send an appeal and to whom?
When anyone were to try to go to my blog, there is a Malware warning. Please tell me what is going on?
Thank you so much. I just need to know.
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Hi there,
My name is Shakira. My personal blog, www.justmeshakira.blogspot.com has been with me since 2006 . It was locked on December 19,20009 due to being detected as a spam blog. I really need help. Where do I send an appeal and to whom?
When anyone were to try to go to my blog, there is a Malware warning. Please tell me what is going on?
Thank you so much. I just need to know.
Shakira Choong
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Hi there,
I have done the all these as advised

1. Read the articles, cited below. Learn how to do steps #2 and #3, and why we have this problem. Help us to help you, and to help others.
2. Submit a review request.
3. Submit an appeal.
4. Do not wait for a response from either Steps #2 or #3. Post here, stating that you have executed steps #2 & #3 (and when did you do so?), and providing the BlogSpot URL(s) of the blog(s).

Did all that by December 20,1009. Please kindly help me restore my blog www.justmeshakira.blogspot.com .

Thank you so much.
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Thank you so much! Have you a very wonderful Christmas.
Bless you! DarkUFO Top Contributor
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I just got my blog back! Thank you so much for all your help,understanding and patience.
GOD BLESS and HAVE A GREAT NEW YEAR!
ps i quickly save my blog template,better be safe than sorry ,right?
hugs,
shakira

Why Do Women Love JERKS So Much?

2009-12-20T00:12:00.001+08:00

Below is written by David DeAngelo

WOMEN DON'T MAKE SENSE!

    Have you ever noticed that women don't seem to
make sense AT ALL when it comes to "dating?"

    What's up with that?

    I'm sure you've been in a situation where you
really liked a woman, and you did everything
"right"... but for some reason she just never felt
attracted to you...

    You called her often, took her to nice places,
bought her gifts, and were a complete gentleman
(translation, you didn't try to kiss her, gave her
space, etc.)... but nothing seemed to cause her to
like you for more than just a "friend"...

    And I'm sure you've been in a situation where a
TOTALLY HOT female friend of yours was dating a
complete jerk who was mean and abusive to her...
and all she did was tell you about how badly he
treats her (and of course she talks about the sex,
too)... all the while you're sitting there and
would do ANYTHING just to have a chance at dating
her. Right?

    What is going on here?

    Why is it that when you're overly nice to a
woman in the beginning, it just causes them to be
less and less interested?

    And why is it that jerky guys who mistreat
women seem to get laid like Rock Stars, even
though they are the WORST possible choice for an
attractive woman?

    This is a fascinating question to me.

    In fact, I've spent the last several YEARS
thinking about this and other related questions.

    It's funny, because when you first ask a
question like this one, you can come up with some
"OK" answers. But now that I've taken the time to
REALLY think about it, research it, and look
DEEPER into the topic, I've realized and found
some FASCINATING answers.

    But more importantly, I've come up with ways
that any guy can take advantage of the secrets
that "jerks" use to attract women... without
having to be abusive.

    OK, so let's talk about some of these concepts
that I've been working on...

    Before we get into the specific concepts, I
want to mention that you can get yourself a
FANTASTIC education about how to communicate with
women in a way that creates ATTRACTION by getting
yourself a copy of my "Sexual Communication"
program. Go check out some video clips of the
program here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/SexualCommunication

    ...I can remember when I used to call women all
the time, take them out, and generally show them
that I was VERY interested in them when I first
met them. I was REALLY a "nice" guy.

    And you can guess what happened. Exactly...

    They would always be nice to me, say that they
appreciated what I had done, and accept my
calls...

    BUT I NEVER SENSED THAT

THEY FELT ANY KIND OF
ATTRACTION FOR ME.

    Something just never felt quite right.

    I always felt this little tension... as if the
woman KNEW that I was interested, but for some
reason THAT VERY FACT was the thing that kept her
from feeling the same in return.

    It was as if the more I tried to get a woman to
like me, the less she would.

    IT JUST DIDN'T MAKE SENSE!

    Why wouldn't a woman choose to like me when I
was such a nice guy?

    Was it my looks? Or the fact that I didn't make
a lot of money? Or that I didn't have a nice car?

    Well, I've since realized something...

    Women don't CHOOSE at all who they are
attracted to.

    ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

    Attraction is something that happens virtually
on its own... WITHOUT ANY CONSCIOUS

DECISION AT ALL.

    Most people have a hard time accepting the idea
that they're not in control of themselves.

    I just read in a marketing book today that some
experts estimate that over 95% of ALL decisions
aren't made consciously.

    In other words, less than 5% of all the
"decisions" that people make were ALREADY MADE FOR
THEM in their minds, and they're just trying to
pretend that it was their idea!

    Well, when it comes to women and ATTRACTION,
things are no different.

    Ask a woman why she's attracted to a certain
guy, and she'll answer, "Oh, he's such a
sweetheart" or "He's really a great guy" or
whatever.

    I personally believe that if you could get a
woman to stop and think about it for a minute, the
REAL answer would be something like "I have no
frickin' idea whatsoever. I just feel an emotion
that makes me crave being with him, and then I
justify it in my mind so I can EXPLAIN it to
myself and everyone else so I don't sound crazy."

    Whoa.

    That's heavy.

    But if you take a look around, it's not NEARLY
as heavy as REALITY. Think about all of the women
you've known who were smart, attractive, and
interesting. Now think about all of those women
who dated abusive, insensitive losers who did
nothing but take from them... and how the women
just dealt with it and kept dating them.

WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE?

    Well, the answer is somewhat complex.

    A combination of evolutionary pressures,
cultural and religious programming, and the
magical way the mind works creates a very unique
and interesting puzzle.

    But let me tell you one thing about this
puzzle.

    When you're first learning how to be successful
with women and dating, you must put aside all of
your past ideas and conditioning for awhile.

    You have to pretend that you don't know
ANYTHING about how women work... and play a little
game.

    Instead of doing what you THINK should work,
try doing what ACTUALLY works.

    When you have this mind set, you'll TRY
different things, JUST TO SEE WHAT WORKS.

    Instead of saying, "Oh, that won't work," just
try it.

    I was out with a good friend of mine one time.
We were at the mall walking around, and I was
showing him how easy it is to meet women.

    We went into a fancy store, and walked up to a
girl who was selling makeup. He started a
conversation with her, and I watched.

    She was laughing, and he was doing fine.

    But you know that point in a conversation with
a woman where you both know that something needs
to happen?

    She needed to get back to work, and he needed
to either move on or ask for her information.

    So I walked over and said "Here, let me see
your hand" (she had her left hand in her pocket,
and we couldn't see if she had a wedding band on).

    She took her hand out, and I looked at it.

    Sure enough, she had a ring on her finger. But
it didn't look like a wedding band to me.

    So I pointed at it and said "So does this ring
mean something? Or is it just to ward-off dumb
asses?"

    She started laughing.

    Here's the good part...

    I looked at my friend and said OUT LOUD, "See,
that's how you find out if she's single. I've got
a line for everything..." and I laughed.

    Then we asked her if she had a card, and made
fun of her for not having an email address... of
course, my friend walked away with her info.

    Now, the funny part of this story is that most
guys would CRINGE if they even THOUGHT of saying
something like "See, that's how you find out if
she's single..." etc. right to a woman's face.

    But she found the humor and arrogance quite
funny and charming.

    What I'm trying to say is that you need to put
aside your ideas about what

women respond to when
it comes to ATTRACTION... and start doing what
WORKS, instead of what

you THINK SHOULD WORK.

    Remember, WOMEN DON'T MAKE SENSE.

    If you keep trying to think about it and get
them to make sense in your mind, you're going to
keep going in circles and chasing your tail.

    Success with women really comes down to
learning   a new way to think about women, then
combining it with the actual techniques that cause
women to feel that magical emotion called
ATTRACTION.

    Once you start using the techniques in the real
world, in real situations, you start to get a FEEL
for how this whole thing works. And once you start
to see how successful you can be, it encourages
you to start doing more "illogical" things.

    You've heard me mention my Advanced CD/DVD
Series many times in these newsletters.

    One of the things I'd like to mention here is
that I take several HOURS to explain how and why
these SUBCONSCIOUS things are taking place, and
how to not only overcome your own personal fears
and limitations, but how to understand what's
going on inside of a woman... and those things
that cause a woman

to feel an UNCONTROLLABLE
ATTRACTION.

~**~***~***~**~

1. Is it so difficult to get a girl interested in you

that you need a personal coach?

2. Do you think , in general ,

WOMEN GOES for the JERKS?

IF SO , WHY?

Do you agree?

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Alexys is NO LONGER my baby....

2009-12-15T00:22:00.002+08:00

Previously, as I have mentioned,

Alexys went to Korea yesterday!

After numerous attempts

at packing and repacking to ensure

there is not excess baggage,

FINALLY WE LEFT FOR KLIA.

I booked a limousine to drive us there

and Alexys wanted us to be

there by 8.40pm

for a 00.05 flight to Korea!

Coincidently, it was a great call as

the airport was totally packed!

Jasmine, my eldest, who have been crying

and all stressed up the last few days

is down with a high fever

so the sisters, who have NEVER BE SEPARATED

ever since they were born,

hugged and kissed good bye at home.

(To be honest, we do not want Jasmine's

health to be affected if she goes to the

airport as it is really cold there when she should

be resting and sleeping at home.)

Arriving at the KLIA, we checked into the MAS counter

only to be told to check in at the KOREAN AIR counter,

hence, this is how Alexys is traveling via KOREAN AIR

by us paying a MAS' price! GREAT right?

(You cannot book this flight online as it is a special shared flight

between MAS and KOREAN AIR . So, I have to book via the

1-300-88-3000 RM3421.OO for a return trip ticket!

Anyone of you know any travel agency that can get me

better price air tickets please let me know as there will

be a lot of traveling soon!)

Before going to the airport, my usually shy Alexys

told me that there is a friend who is meeting

her at the airport as he wants to give her a gift.

I was too tired to be shocked.lol

So at the airport, when I finally met Jerry,

he turns out to be a rather sweet teenager,

and I told him to join me in my cab

when it is time to go back home.

He was shy but finally he agreed.

TO FAST FORWARD.....

Got one of their staff to escort Alexys to

her flight.

Hugs and kisses and said goodbyes.

We went to get a cab to go home.

While in the cab, suddenly Alexys tried to call me

being rather upset that they confisticated some of

her hair items and when the lines suddenly got cut off,

frantically I askied Jerry to use his phone

to call Alexys as my phone is out of battery!

When the call was patched through,

I quickly grabbed the phone

to speak to her but I cannot hear her...

she sounded so far away.....

I turned to the cab driver asking what is wrong

and he pointed out that I was talking

on the handphone,

I was talking TO THE BACK OF THE PHONE!

Everyone was laughing!

They think I was so CUTE!

LOL.

Alexys is safely in Korea now,

happy with her wonderful room,

being pampered by Didi.

This is going to be a great time

for them to spent quality time bonding!

As for me.....

I have finally realized that

Alexys is NO LONGER my baby......

GOD BLESS HER!

SO TRUE!

2009-12-13T06:36:00.000+08:00

We never get what we want ,

We never want what we get,

We never have what we like,

We never like what we have,

And still we live and love,

NOW, THAT IS LIFE!

The best kind of friends,

Is the kind you can sit on a porch

and swing with,

Never say a word,

And then walk away feeling like it was

the best conservation you ever had!

It is true that we do not know

What we have got until it is gone,

But it is also true that we do not know

What we have been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never

an assurance that they will love you back!

Do not expect love in return;

Just wait for it to grow in their heart,

But if it does not,be content it grew in yours!

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,

An hour to like someone,

And a day to love someone,

But it takes a lifetime to forget someone!

Do not go for looks; they can deceive.

Do not go for wealth; even that fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile,

Because it takes only a smile to

make a dark day seems bright.

Find the one that makes your heart smile!

May you have

Enough happiness to make you sweet,

Enough trials to make you strong,

Enough sorrow to keep you human,

And enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in others' shoes.

If you feel that it hurts you,

It probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people

Don't necessarily have the best of everything;

They just make the most of everything

that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for

Those who cry,

Those who hurt,

Those who have searched,

And those who have tried,

For only they can appreciate

the importance of people

Who have touched their lives.

When you were born, you were crying

And everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so that when you die,

You're the one who is smiling!

And everyone around you is crying!

Amazing True Insights!

2009-12-13T05:41:00.001+08:00

A woman WORRIES about HER FUTURE

until SHE GETS A HUSBAND!

A man NEVER WORRIES about HIS FUTURE

until HE GETS A WIFE!

What do you say?

A man BEFORE MARRIAGE is a SUPERMAN.

AFTER MARRIAGE is a GENTLEMAN.

5 YEARS LATER is a WATCHMAN.

10 YEARS LATER is " WHO IS THE MAN AGAIN?"!

Why LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED?

Because a "KNOWN DEVIL" is so much better than

an "UNKNOWN GHOST" !

Every person is a FREEDOM FIGHTER....

IMMEDIATELY AFTER MARRIAGE!

TELLING A LIE is a FAULT for a LITTLE BOY,

AN ART for a LOVER,

AN ACCOMPLISHMENT for a BACHELOR

and

A matter of SURVIVAL for a MARRIED MAN!

can you think of more amazing true insights?

a man

2009-12-11T17:26:00.007+08:00

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND,EVERYONE!

^ A MAN SHOULD HAVE ..... ^

A set of grooming tools,

^ A proper POWER TOOL and ^

^ A CLEAN UNDERWEAR .... ^

^ A MAN SHOULD HAVE... ^

One friend who
Always makes him
Laugh...

And one

^ Who lets him cry... ^

^ A MAN SHOULD HAVE... ^

A good piece of furniture
Not previously owned by
Anyone else in his family...

^ A MAN SHOULD HAVE ^

One FLAT SCREEN TELEVISION,
Some beers and snacks,
And a recipe for an amazing evening
With the guys on an ALL GUYS' EVENING!

^ A MAN SHOULD KNOW ^

How to enjoy a good meal.

^ and also how to cook! ^

^ A MAN SHOULD HAVE... ^

A feeling of control over HIS destiny.

^  EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW... ^

How to fall in love Without losing himself...

^ A MAN SHOULD LEARN ^

when to be WEAK

^ and when to be STRONG. ^

^ A MAN SHOULD KNOW ^

  1. WHEN TO SAY NO.

^ 2. WHEN TO QUIT. ^

^ 3. HOW TO SAY SORRY. ^

^ 4. WHEN TO SHOW APPRECIATION. ^

^ A MAN SHOULD KNOW ^

Once he is married,

  he should be FAITHFUL only to his wife.

^ Once he is a father, ^

when he should be loving,

^ when he should be tough.^

^ and when to have fun! ^

^ A MAN SHOULD KNOW ^

  when to be pampered

^ and when to pamper. ^

^ A MAN SHOULD KNOW ^

how to be CONTENTED.

^ and FAITHFUL! ^

^ A MAN SHOULD KNOW ^

how to dress up

^ how to dress down ^

^ and most of all, ^

how to grow old gracefully!

p/s anymore suggestions?

I am SO CONFUSED in LETTING GO....

2009-12-09T02:57:00.004+08:00

By the same time next week,

I will have only Jasmine here with me

as Alexys will be with Didi in Korea

and I cannot help but feeling so torn!

She is just 15 but again,

Didi is going to be there,

so, she will not be alone or lost and

we know that this is the BEST for her.
Moreover, she really wants to go!

This is the first time ever she is

going to leave me since

I have gotten full custody of

both my daughters,

which is just 6 years ago.

In the last six years,

we were going through a lot

of challenges with Jasmine and

then, I, getting sick and being hospitalized.

When both of us were sick,

poor Alexys had to take care of

both of us ALONE!

She is a truly remarkably

tough and compassionate young lady.

Within the six years also,

when I was working, attending courts,

( both the criminal and syariah courts)

I really hardly have time for the girls.

Her childhood was rather depressing,

with ex husband abandoning us most of the time.

I made sure both of my daughters did enjoy and benefit

by attending child development programs with

TUMBLE TOTS from 6 months to 7 years of age,

but I could not afford to enrol Alexys in a

good kindergarden as ex was not working and
I was not allowed to leave the house!

Then ONCE the girls were started

in primary schools,

they were taken away from me,

hence I hardly get to see them at all.

The precious times we spent were only

MADE POSSIBLE

when they will missed Saturday classes (school)

and begged to be sent home by the driver.

Their grandma (old woman) and ex will always try to

prevent it citing all kinds of reasons.

Once they are back, I will cook them all their

favorite food and we will spend time,

talking ,catching up on all the lost times,

and we will all sleep together!

I will allow them to play in the swimming pool

and do almost whatever they want.

REALLY PRECIOUS MOMENTS!

Without any warning, the old woman and ex

will be BLASTING THEIR CAR'S HONKS,

until we got to DROP EVERYTHING

and RUSH TO OPEN THE GATE FOR THEM!

(SO DAMN RUDE!)

The girls will be saying their reluctant,

teary good byes to me and hugging me,

not willing to let go of me.

old woman

I would have to persuade them to go

while the old woman and ex will

be looking on IMPATIENTLY.

I HATE TO SEE ANYONE SCOLDING THEM.

WHO THE HELL THEY THINK THEY ARE?

I AM THE MOTHER, RIGHT?

WHERE DID IT SAY THAT

THE MOTHER IN LAW

IS THE QUEEN???

SADLY, IN THAT FAMILY,

THE MIL IS THE KING AND QUEEEN!

So you see, Alexys actually did not spend

so much time with me but I must be ever

so grateful to Didi for allowing me

to be a stay at home mother for the last three years.

SO, AFTER JUST SPENDING THREE WONDERFUL YEARS

OF GETTING TO TRULY KNOW ALEXYS AS A YOUNG LADY,

SHE WILL BE LEAVING FOR KOREA.

I KNOW THAT DIDI WILL TAKE GREAT CARE OF HER,

I WILL BE SEEING HER WHEN I GO THERE

AND WHEN SHE COMES BACK FOR VACATIONS.

BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?

I KNOW THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.

I AM SO GRATEFUL THAT SHE IS NOW

GIVEN A CHANCE TO RESTART HER LIFE

IN KOREA AND BUILD HERSELF A NEW FUTURE.

BE BLESSED ALWAYS,MY LOVELY ALEXYS,

KNOW THAT I WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER,

NO MATTER WHAT!

YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!

2009-12-07T23:42:00.000+08:00

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR COMMENTS!

YOUR COMMENTS MEANT A LOT TO ME AS:

I FEEL THE "LOVE".

I FEEL MOTIVATED.

I FEEL SO APPRECIATED.

I NO LONGER FEEL ALONE.

I LOVE THE SHARING VIA FEEDBACKS.

GUESS WHAT ?

WHEN I DO NOT GET COMMENTS.....

I FEEL SO ALONE!

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR

INVALUABLE SUPPORT!

MY BETTER HALF, MY PARTNER IN CRIME,MY HUBBY!

2009-12-05T02:50:00.003+08:00

HOW MY HUBBY MAKES ME FEEL
,,,,,,,, SO SPECIAL?

Since the day we met, we have not miss a day

without talking with each other,

twice a day no matter where we both are!

Even when he was on a road trip!

I remember the first time he sent

a gift package from USA,

it is not even CHRISTMAS,

The package contained some special

gifts for girls and I!

From lovely sweaters to chocolates!

He made us all feel so special!

Knowing that I am not well,

he made sure that I have the best medical

supports/medications that I need.

Even knowing my weaknesses, he is EXTREMELY

PATIENCE and UNDERSTANDING,

never ever stop ENCOURAGING ME

to OVERCOME my problems.

He will never hesitate to do chores,

as a matter of fact, he does more,

as after all , he is a world class qualified

INTERNATIONAL CHEF!

I dare not see anything when we go shopping

as he will quickly buy me more than I will

ever need!

At the end of a hard day, he will ALWAYS,

massage my aches away lovingly.

NEVER FAILS TO SAY

" I LOVE YOU"

EVERY SINGLE DAY!

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MORE,DARLING,

ALWAYS AND FOREVER MORE!

I would like to dedicate this poem to you....

I promise to give you the best of myself
and to ask of you no more than you can give.

I promise to respect you as your own person
and to realize that your interests, desires and needs
are no less important than my own.

I promise to share with you my time and my attention
and to bring joy, strength,imagination

and zeals to our relationship.

I promise to keep myself open to you
, to let you see through the window of my world
into my innermost fears and feelings, secrets and dreams.

I promise to grow along with you,
to be willing to face changes

in order to keep
our relationship alive and exciting yet realistic.

I promise to love you in good times and bad,
with all I have to give and all I feel inside
in the only way I know how,
completely and forever more!

SOME INTERESTING LAWS!

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Lucky enough to read this hilarious set of laws!

Have you ever have ANY of them happened to you?

As for me.....

actually ALMOST ALL OF THEM!

Have you a great weekend!

HUGS,

ShAkirA

Some Laws....Newton forgot!

Law of queue:

If you change queues, the one you have

left will start to move faster

than the one you are in now.

Law of the Telephone:

When you dial a wrong number,

you never get an engaged one.

Law of Mechanical Repair:

after your hands become coated with grease,

your nose will begin to itch.

Law of the Workshop:

Any tool, when dropped,

will roll to the least accessible corner.

Bath THEOREM:

When the body is immersed in water,

the telephone rings.

LAW OF ENCOUNTERS:

The probability of meeting someone

you know increases when you are with

someone you don't want

to be seen with.

LAW of the RESULT:

When you try to prove to someone

that a machine won't work,

it will!

THIS CAN HAPPEN TO ALL OF US

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I really do not understand how

ANYONE can hurt themselves so much

that they are willing to abuse their bodies like

these below!

As a parent, I really do not understand

how the above kids' parents are

doing this to their kids?

WHAT ARE THEY THINKING?

THAT IT IS CUTE????

Looking around me when I go out

with my daughters, I noticed that they are

a lot of OVER WEIGHT people.

I was really rather shock.

What miserable lives these people

have/had? I really cannot understand

how someone ,even with medical problems,

like Jasmine and myself,

would ever do that to ourselves.

What are your opinions?

Care to share?

BE HEALTHY, LOVE YOURSELF!

~*~*~*~*****~*****~*~*~*~

Carol Yager (peak weight 727 kg/ 1,600 lbs)

Her peak weight reached up to 727 kg (16, 00 lbs). She was also famous for losing most weight by natural means. Carol Yager lost 521 lbs weight in just three months. Her skin was breaking down due to a bacterial infection that’s why she was admitted in Hurley Medical Center. She spent terrible time till her death. Carol Yager was unable to stand or walk because of her muscles were not strong enough. She died in a young of 34. Main causes of her death were kidney failure, multiple organ failure and morbid obesity.

Jon Brower Minnoch (peak weight 635 kg / 1400 lbs)

Likewise Carol Yager, Job Brower was also fat in his childhood. In the age of 12 his weight was 132 kg (292 lbs). He married to Jeannette, a woman of normal weight and had two sons. Minnoch was admitted to hospital for 16 months where he lost 419 kg but after being discharged, his weight double. He couldn’t improve any better and died on September 10, 1983, at age 42.

Manuel Uribe (597 kg / 1,316 lb)

Like other heavy people, Manuel Uribe is also living a hard life. He spends 9 years in bed from 2001 to 2009. Even he got married in bed with Claudia on October 26, 2008. On his wedding, he spoke loud and clear to all dishearten people saying “I am proof you can find love in any circumstances. It’s all a question of faith. I have a wife and will form a new family and live a happy life”.

Walter Hudson (544 kg / 1,200 lb)

World’s fourth heaviest power house was born in Brooklyn, New York. Walter came into lime light when he was trapped inside of his room’s door. Recue team had to break the wall to take him out. He loved to eat as once he said and I quote “”I just ate and enjoyed it”. Although he announced his wedding plans but that remains a dream for his. He died few weeks later.

Rosalie Bradford (544 kg / 1,200 lb)

Rosalie Bradford was Foodaholic since her childhood. Like all other weight giants, she gained weight in young age. At the age of 14 her weight was 92 kg and 140 kg at the age of 15. Rosalie married and had one son. After her marriage, she mostly spent her time at home and gain more weight. All that depressed her much and she tried to kill her using painkillers. Her weight eventually reduced to 136 kg (300 lb). She died on November 29, 2006 in the age of 63.

MY TEN ANGELS.....

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TO A HEALTHIER BRAIN!

2009-12-03T00:22:00.000+08:00

I have no idea who is the author but I do find this very useful as I have tried some of the suggestions. GOOD LUCK!

Have you ever felt exasperated when you bumped into someone at the store but absolutely couldn't remember their name? Sure, it happens to all of us.

Despite being the strongest computer on the planet, our brains do lapse. It's hard to blame them really. As humans, we spend much of or existence stuffing our brains withstuff. Some stuff is worthless, some of it's meaningful, some of it, well, it's just stuff and there is an endless amount of it.

No matter how powerful our brains are, they need recuperation time, to be kept in shape, and even an occasional charge. Think of it as a tune up for your brain. Skipping brain maintenance is as silly as the person wandering the parking garage because they forgot where they parked. Is that you? Are you that person? Sure. We all are at some point. No worries, there is hope.

Now I am not a brain surgeon and I am not going to suggest you do anything surgical or dangerous. I am however an astute student of human behavior, so I always look for simple ways to super charge my brain.

Here are some things you can begin doing as soon as today to begin the great brain tune up.

Eat Almonds
Almond is believed to improve memory. If a combination of almond oil and milk is taken together before going to bed or after getting up at morning, it strengthens our memory power. Almond milk is prepared by crushing the almonds without the outer cover and adding water and sugar to it.

Drink Apple Juice
Research from the University of Massachusetts Lowell (UML) indicates that apple juice increases the production of the essential neurotransmitter acetylcholine in the brain, resulting in an increased memory power.

Sleep well
Research indicates that the long-term memory is consolidated during sleep by replaying the images of the experiences of the day. These repeated playbacks program the subconscious mind to store these images and other related information.

Enjoy simple Pleasures
Stress drains our brainpower. A stress-ridden mind consumes much of our memory resources to leave us with a feeble mind. Make a habit to engage yourself in few simple pleasures everyday to dissolve stress from your mind. Some of these simple pleasures are good for your mind, body and soul.
- Enjoy music you love
- Play with your children
- Hug a stranger
- Appreciate others
- Run few miles a day, bike or swim
- Start a blog
- Take a yoga class or Total wellness routine
Fast for a day
Fasting cleans and detoxifies our body. It is known fact that heavy food not only causes stress on our digestive system but also drains our brainpower. Fasting relieves toxic emotions such as anger, grief, worry, and fears - before they accumulate and cause disease. By cleansing toxic emotions, fasting strengthens metal clarity with increases memory, concentration, creativity and insight.

Exercise your mind
Just as physical exercise is essential for a strong body, mental exercise is equally essential for a sharp and agile mind. Have you noticed that children have far superior brainpower than an adult does? Children have playful minds. A playful mind exhibits superior memory power. Engage in some of the activities that require your mind to remain active and playful.
- Play scrabble or crossword puzzle
- Volunteer
- Interact with others
- Start a new hobby such as blogging, reading, painting, bird watching
- Learn new skill or a language

Practice Yoga or Meditation
Yoga or Meditation relives stress. Stress is a known memory buster. With less stress, lower blood pressure, slower respiration, slower metabolism, and released muscle tension follows. All of these factors contribute significantly towards increases in our brainpower.

Reduce Sugar intake
Sugar is a non-food. Itâ€™s a form of carbohydrate that offers illusionary energy, only to cause a downhill slump once the initial burst has been worn off. Excess intake of sugar results in neurotic symptoms. Excess sugar is known to cause claustrophobia, memory loss and other neurotic disorders. Eat food without adding sugar. Stay away from sweet drinks or excess consumption of caffeine with sugar.

Eat whole wheat
The whole wheat germs contain lecithin. Lecithin helps ease the problem of the hardening of the arteries, which often impairs brain functioning.

Eat a light meal in the night
A heavy meal at night causes tossing and turning and a prolonged emotional stress while at sleep. Itâ€™s wise to eat heavy meal during the day when our body is in motion to consume the heavy in-take. Eating a light meal with some fruits allows us to sleep well. A good night sleep strengthens our brainpower.

Develop imagination
Greeks mastered the principle of imagination and association to memorize everything. This technique requires one to develop a vivid and colorful imagination that can be linked to a known object. If you involve all your senses - touching, feeling, smelling, hearing and seeing in the imagination process, you can remember greater details of the event.

Sex
Our sexual imagination often empowers our ability to daydream, which strengthens our brainpower with greater imagination, visualization and association.

Control your temper
Bleached food, excess of starch or excess of white bread can lead to nerve grating effect. This results in a violent and some time depressive behavior. Eat fresh vegetables. Drink lots of water and meditate or practice yoga to relieve these toxic emotions of temper and violent mood swings.

Take Vitamin B-complex
Vitamin B-complex strengthens memory power. Eat food and vegetables high in Vitamin B-complex. Stay away from the starch food or white bread, which depletes the Vitamin B-complex necessary for a healthy mind.

PICTURES THAT WILL MAKE YOU SMILE!

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( African car wash!)

Below are some really amazing pictures,

which put a smile on my face and I would like to

share this story with all.

There was one day in the winter,when I was

really bored. Hence I thought I will do

something thoughtful and so,

I revised the car out of the garage and

WASH THE CAR outside!

When I was ready to drive the car

back into the garage, the car WOULD NOT START!

I have no choice but to call my god father

and when I told him what happened,

I COULD HEAR HIM LAUGHING

ALONG WITH ALL HIS STAFF IN HIS CLINIC!

HOW EMBARRASSING!

Never seems to amaze me...

my GENUINE SILLINESS!

WHAT IS LOVE?

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LOVE is when my mommy puts on perfume

and my daddy puts on shaving cologne and

and smile LOVINGLY at

each other EVERY DAY!

LOVE is when my daddy goes out and gives

my mommy most of his french fries

without making her give him

any of hers!

LOVE is when sometimes when my daddy

hurts my mommy's feelings and

my mummy gets so mad but

my mummy won't yell

at him because she would not

hurt his feelings!

LOVE is when my mommy makes coffee for

my daddy and she takes a sip before giving

it to him to make sure that the taste is OK!

LOVE is when my mommy tells my daddy

that she likes him in a new shirt

and he wears it EVERYDAY!

LOVE is when my mommy sees my daddy

smelly and all sweaty but

she still embraced him so tight

and tell him that he is more handsome

than SHAH RUKH KHAN!

LOVE is when my mommy and daddy

will continue to tell each other

that they love each other,

a million times a day!

LOVE is when my mommy reheats

supper for my daddy even when

my daddy works late every single day

for a month!

LOVE is when my mommy lets me

go to KOREA when she

is going to miss me, oh so much!

LOVE is when my mommy keeps

smelling my daddy's old unwashed

clothes whenever she misses him!

LOVE is when my daddy will surprise

my mommy with gifts

even when it is not her birthday!

LOVE is when my daddy still look

at my mommy with so much love

and tells her that she is the most

beautiful woman in the world!

LOVE is knowing that NO MATTER WHAT,

my mommy and my daddy will always love me!